The Daniel Fast: feed your soul, strengthen your spirit, and renew your body (Tyndale Momentum, 2010)

More than we may readily admit to, our physical condition impacts our spiritual and emotional health. The Daniel Fast is a tool which leads the reader to a thoughtful and well-planned blend of body-to-spirit awareness designed with a spiritual purpose in mind. Scripture references highlight different spiritual disciplines that require adhering to and purposed endeavor. One of these, the discipline of fasting, is often mentioned. Depending on one’s background, the person may have participated in fasting or they may not have.

This is a whole new opportunity to facilitate growth in the inner person through denying self of certain foods and drinks. Susan Gregory offers this book as a guide for a form of partial “fasting,” a fast that allows the foods eaten by Daniel and the three Hebrew boys during their initial period of  Babylonian captivity. For spiritual reasons, these young men refused to eat the King’s food and drink. Instead, they drank water and ate pulse, any seed-bearing food (vegetables, fruits, and grains). They fared very well.

As Gregory explains, a true “fast” is a relationship of denying food or drink for the purpose of a spiritual goal. The Daniel Fast incorporates devotionals, biblical background, a food list, and recipes. It is easy to read but serious in intent. My church ladies have participated in the Daniel Fast two times and are eager to do it again. They also purchased the workbook which works well as a compliment study. This is an excellent group activity. We saw much improvement in our physical health during the fast and also noticed a sharpness in our spiritual side as we completed the study.

Emotions are Fragile: Stop the Public Scoldings

Emotions are fragile. It troubles me when I see people stomp on other people’s emotions as if the other person has no feelings. Words, when said in order to cause humiliation or with unrestrained intense anger, will cause emotional damage.

In a conversation, a parent said to me that her husband intentionally embarrassed her son (his step-son) in front of his classmates. The reason? So the boy will remember to turn on his cell phone when he is leaving school. The mother thought it would make her teenage son more responsible. Not me, I think it is akin to shaming. The following statement is well documented.

Public shaming is one of the most damaging humiliations a person can experience. It is especially harmful to the person’s self-concept and emotional health.

I believe it.

People who teach, coach or work with children need to keep this in mind, employers too. The things we say to a child or an employee can stay with them the rest of their life. Negative words and their implications are demoralizing and internalized.

What is said to the good will lift up but what is said to the negative will destroy. That is why those words that were said to you years ago will still sting when they are remembered. They hurt our sense of self.

I have seen people, including school administrators, verbally attack a child or adult in front of everybody within hearing distance. The recipient doesn’t have a chance to defend her- or himself.

Emotional health is tied to a healthy view of one’s self. To have a healthy view we must see our worth and value in the positive category and not in the negative deficient category.

Damaged emotions can be healed. It is possible. Many have experienced it including myself. It may take months or years.

Please be careful what you say to your children, mate, friends, and coworkers. . . .and anybody.

Words are powerful.