Types of Prayer: It Depends

Have you ever given much thought to your prayers? To other’s prayers? I want to dig a little deeper into the subject of prayer. I want to start with the common prayer. Then I want to talk about the types of prayers you find in the formal, catholic type of prayer and the informal prayer that the protestants tend to use. And lastly, I want to share the deeper kinds of prayers.

The basic prayer:

Before we know how to pray, or when we are new at praying, we know that we should pray to our Father in Heaven, we should confess our sins to him, we thank him for our salvation, that his Son died on the cross, that he rose from the dead, that he is making a home for us in heaven, and thank him for loving us.

The type of prayer that is more formal, Anglican, Episcopal, Catholic or any of the formal liturgical types, are memorized prayers. The memorized prayers, like the prayers I heard at the Monastery, are learned by memory and are quoted by the participants. I do not know if they pray these prayers by themselves for I have not been raised in that tradition. I can not speak about their prayers for I know little about them other than what I have observed over the years…including the one year where I spent one hour per week at the Trappist Monastery for over a year.

The more informal type of prayer is the kind of prayer that isn’t memorized. It is more of a baptist way of praying…but I’m not going to rate them. God has taught me to look beyond the way a prayer is said to look at the why it is said. Is the person really seeking the Lord while he is praying. He should.

One time a few years back I was in a prayer group in my church. While we were praying a vision of Jesus came into the room. He lifted his arms out and then lifted his arms above his head and looked toward heaven. After a moment he was gone. No one else mentioned seeing him. I came home and drew a picture of him from my memory. The picture came easily. I have often thought about it. I remember how he looked. He was peaceful, radiant and calm.

I feel close to God when I pray during the silence. There is no one but me to hear my prayers but God hears me. I know he does. Sometimes I lose my focus and my mind takes a vacation. Then I will get back to my praying state. Some prayers are long in length and some are rather simple. I love it when I know I am reaching my heavenly father with my prayerful thoughts. He is so very, very close. I just know he is.

Those few months when I couldn’t pray were horrible (I mentioned this in an earlier post). I missed talking to God. I missed sharing my thoughts. I missed listening for him, to him, feeling his comfort. Prayer brings God close. When I read Christian books I pay attention to the author. Do they talk about God in a way that is familiar? I like it when they do. You sense they adore him. God is special to them. He makes them worshipful. It’s a beautiful thing.

I suppose some of you are rather bored with this post. Prayer has been sort of a hard thing for you to do. Don’t give up. Ask God to help you. Remember who you’re talking to. He waits for you. He hungers for you to want him. A suggestion: change your position. Pray out loud. Pray for different people, people you don’t know, missionaries, friends, enemies (yes!), people in offices, people who are hurting, people in your city, street, county, country, state, nation or anywhere. Thank God for your body and the many parts of it, for your spiritual family, any troubles you have, for the goodness God gives you. There are a myriad of things to pray and thank God for.

I’ll conclude this blog with an encouragement. Thank God for being with you all the time. God helps you. God keeps you. God blesses you. He does so much that we don’t think to praise him for. Let’s praise him for taking care of you. I’m thankful he cares for you today, tomorrow, and in the days to come.

We are so fortunate.

Prayer Tells a lot About Us

One of the weirdest things happened when I had my stroke three years ago…I tried, but couldn’t, pray. My mind wouldn’t focus. I couldn’t keep my thoughts in one place, together. I’d start to pray but my mind wouldn’t, couldn’t focus for more than a few seconds. That was quite frustrating. Before that, I had gotten to where I would take a long precious time in prayer, but I couldn’t do it anymore. I just couldn’t. I wanted to. I tried to. But the words and thoughts weren’t there. It was a struggle.

You know, when you can’t pray your life feels empty. The problem was my mind couldn’t think rationally or for very long. I loved praying but I no longer could. Prayer is such a strong part of a Christian’s life. We are fortunate that God has given us a way to speak to and with him. Thankfully I can pray now. But not as well or as completely as I used to. Prayer is a way of speaking to God. It is beautiful when we are given the time and effort to spread our wings and reach up to the heaven with our words, like we say in a prayer. God hears us.

Twelve or so years ago I decided to look beyond my protestant faith to see what I would find. I knew what I believed but I was afraid of what I didn’t believe or accept as worthy of my Christian belief. I read Chesterton, some priests, other people of the faith, Saint John of the cross etc. which practiced a different form of belief than I did. I did a search in the Christian realm but not just of one’s I completely agreed with. I was totally shocked by what I found. I talked with an Anglican priest, I talked at length with a Trappist priest, I read many books which are not protestant in dogma. I spent a year visiting a Trappist Monestary one hour per week I was blessed through the circle I participated in. God spoke to me.

I learned that it matters what your heart believes. I came away from the different authors with a realization that we may differ on many things but the belief about our Father, Son, and Holy Spirit is what is critical. What does the Father do? What is the Son responsible for? What does the Holy Spirit mean to us? Each one of these has a direct plan to do and be what they are responsible for in our lives. They work together and yet they have separate parts to play in our lives.

When I pray I am basically talking to my heavenly Father although the others are present. I picture him in the room with me. I imagine he is with me when I talk to him. Sometimes I address him as I talk to him. I imagine he is standing next to me on my right side. God is there. God knows what I am saying, thinking, and doing. He speaks to me. Sometimes I am aware of his presence. How so? I completely shut down and think and listen. His words are not one I can hear, but I still know what he has to say to me. But it takes some doing, his words speak in my mind. Slowly and preciously I can discern what he is saying. His words are precious, quiet, and measured.

I ask God to cleanse my heart before I speak to him. I don’t want my actions or negative words to cause disruption between us. I get as quiet as I can before I listen, wait, think, praise, and give myself to him, for I don’t want to hinder my prayer. Sometimes it takes a good while until my heart is ready. I wait and listen. I talk quietly, and wait, and talk some more. I repeat the process, waiting, listening, and talking.

There are times when God seems quiet, but he’s not. He may not make himself known to you, but he is listening. He may seem far away, but he is not. He hears you. There is a lot of reasons for why God does what he does that I don’t understand, but I know he loves me and he loves you even when he doesn’t make his presence known to us. If you have a chance today, take some by-yourself-time to seek our Lord and wait for him to minister to you. It’s a precious and holy time. Well worth the time it takes, you’ll find out.

Please let me know how it’s going and what God is teaching you.