Aunt Louise, Mrs. Lamb, Clyde C. & God’s Word

How You Treat Your Bible Does Matter

I WAS LUCKY. I had two Aunt Louises. Both of them went by their middle names. One Aunt Louise was my father’s older sister, Almina Louise, and the other Aunt Louise was my mother’s younger sister, Virginia Louise. Both Aunt Louises’ played the piano. In fact, my dad’s sister was a district roving music teacher for part of her teaching career, and she directed several musicals. My mother’s sister was a student at the time. She accompanied the musical selections in these same musicals.

My parents were probably getting acquainted around that time. They went to sister churches a few blocks from each other in Glendora, California.

One summer when I was a little girl I spent a some time with my mother’s parents. They had rented a little cottage in Burbank to be closer to my grandad’s work as a heavy equipment operator in freeway construction. My aunt was going through a difficult divorce. She was in and out visiting us. I remember several scenes with her. I thought she was exotic looking. She was a cosmetician-beautician-hairdresser and mother to my infant cousin David. The two of us went for walks with her son David in a stroller. One time she bought me a packet of Walnettos. I could tell that my grandparents were anxious about her.

My Aunt’s Bible

My aunt would read in her Bible. She kept a red pencil and a blue pencil on the table next to her. Every so often she would stop and color in a verse with the red or blue pencil. One day I happened to look in her bible and saw that many passages had been colored. That impressed me.

I knew there was a reason she was coloring the verses. They had interested her in some way. I thought the red and blue looked beautiful, just like how I saw her as beautiful. The Word of God speaks to the soul. I witnessed that whenever I saw my aunt reading and underlining passages.

My aunt married again and had six sons altogether. Her life was not easy. She passed away from cancer at age forty-four (?). I saw her a couple of weeks before she passed when Grandma and I went to visit her. I was a student at CSU Fullerton the fall of her passing. Aunt Louise was beautiful and gracious even though she was seriously ill and in pain. I felt sad that she hadn’t had an easier time of it.

Those Dog-Eared Corners

Mrs. Lamb was one of those sweet saints of God. She was devoted to teaching children about God’s Word. Our family attended Grace Baptist Church in Chico, California at the time. Mrs. Lamb would teach us in the church library on Sunday afternoons right before the Sunday evening service. There were my siblings and me and a couple of other children. She’d sit on a chair and teach while we listened to her.

There was the time she talked about “dog-ears.” You know, those pages where the top corner is turned down. She explained that we should treat our bibles with care because it is God’s Word. She held her bible and explained about dog-eared pages. We opened our bibles and thumbed through the pages looking for dog-ears to flatten until they were smooth. She encouraged us to not fold the corner of any page and to use a book marker instead. To this day I make sure my bible’s pages don’t have any dog-eared pages.

Respecting the Word

Clyde C. our church’s then adult Sunday School teacher and I were talking between church services. We were discussing bibles. I told him what I had learned from Mrs. Lamb and how it stuck with me. He chuckled, then he told me he was taught to never place a bible directly on the floor. That was a new one on me, and I felt it had merit. The Word of God is precious. After all, it is the Holy Bible. From then on I never placed a bible on the floor.

I know that’s a small thing and probably doesn’t matter. But it matters to me. I feel like I am respectful of the Word of God when I treat it well. This afternoon I needed to respond to something while I was reading my bible and taking notes. I was in a hurry and the quickest thing would have been to put my bible on the floor. I didn’t want to do that for the very reasons already stated. So I grabbed a throw pillow and put my bible on top of it.

Not all people have a bible. Some countries in the world ban copies of the bible where it is illegal for anyone to have a bible. I have heard stories where one or two pages of the Word is all they have. They treasure those pages. We, too, should prize our bibles. I hope your take-away from this post is a renewed appreciation for God’s Word. It is precious and unlike any other book you own. Treat the bible as holy unto the Lord.

[Top Photo: Left to right, my mother and her sister at the Big Bear Lake cabin.]

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GODLY LOVE RESPECTS OTHERS

Human Love

Do you love well? Do you love your neighbor? Do you have a heart that loves like Jesus did? Is His love in you? You know you should love your neighbor. You know Jesus loved the unlovely and forsaken. But do you?

I wrote this piece six years ago, but these last two weeks, with BLM protests around the world, I have thought more about the need for reaching out beyond the normal. White privilege is part of the international conversation right now. What if the narrative could be switched to a conversation about love, and while we’re at it, a conversation about respect.

Love and respect would change the world if allowed to take root. You respect people and things when you love well.

When you choose to only love people who are like you—who have the same views and religious beliefs, who are similar in practice and lifestyle—then your love has conditions. This goes for any race, country, or nation. Gulp. We must look at ourselves first. My honest answer to ‘Do I love well?’ would have to be, “Sometimes yes, and sometimes no.” I need to increase in my loving response to others. But I can truthfully say, it is always my heart’s desire.

Real Christ-love does not choose whom it is going to love, it just loves.

Christ’s love is a love that originates in the heart and soul. His love will not have fences, gates, barriers, or roadblocks. It will see others through a prism of gracious acceptance, kindness in thought, generosity in deed, care in action, love in selflessness, and hopefulness in outlook. However, love like this will not be foolish in attitude or commitment. You still have to be aware of abusive people.

Christ ate with a tax collector, a big no-no for a spiritual person. He saw the person first, not the other stuff. You, too, can hold a conversation with someone who holds a majorly, radically different opinion than yours and still enjoy them, which is because Christian love trumps your differing viewpoints.

Love loves, period. When Christ gets your heart, when you surrender your way to His way, then it is like your world pivots into a different dimension. You see life with a heart of love. Your reactions will be love-based rather than me first. This love needs to focus on Christ at all times. We do get distracted quite easily.

The truth is that all areas of our world need love. Love reaches out in other directions, for love is needed by more than just people. The natural world needs love. Plants and animals, when loved well, will flourish because they are treated with respect. When we love well, we will respect well; the two go together.

Love defines a loving person

Godly Love

Love develops as love grows.

Jesus’ love for others was pure. His love was not used as a formula for pressuring or manipulating souls. Nor did He view people as projects to be altered and shaped. How do I know this? It is apparent in how He interacted with all He met. He saw the heart of the person and their need. He walked around their need to enter from the back, where they lived in their heart-of-hearts. He would say, “What do you need?” though it was obvious. That is how He saw through the self-righteous people of the day, the Pharisees, as well.

Have you ever asked someone, “What can I do for you?” or “How can I help you?” or “What do you need?” This is an avenue that shows you care without any intimidation or implied pressure. Let the Spirit of God empower the effort.

I’ll never forget a church my then husband and I attended in a mountain village. On our first visit the minister’s wife came up to us and asked us if they could help us, if we had any needs they could meet, if we needed any assistance like clothing, food, or financial. Later, I realized how in-tune the church was with meeting folks’ needs, then and there. If someone had a prayer need, they’d stop the service, gather round the person, and pray for the need. I’d never seen anything like it, nor have I since.

How about you? I’m sure you question God’s love at times. Especially when you’re not at your best. Well, sorry to disappoint you, but it’s not about you in that regard, not about your performance or ‘good’ behavior, and not about His love not being there for you. God is always present. Always. And you simply can’t earn God’s love. Love is not a reward for good behavior. His love always is. Always.

You just struggle because you are human, and you go through things. You get fearful, disheartened, and look at self. The key to this, though, is to train yourself to look at Christ, to go to the Source of love, strength, and goodness. Give it to God, and then let the angst, problem, or situation work out in God’s way. By the way, this really works.

God loves because He is love. Love is part of God’s essence. You can ask God to help you to sense or be aware of His love in your reality. Then start looking for where He is at. You’ll find God everywhere, in a smile, a lovely flower, a kind word, a beautiful song, a friend’s communication, in a human being–someone you don’t even know. By seeing God in it all, you will be surprised. It will change you. It will help you love and then respect well.

Love, when allowed to flower, changes your heart, which changes your being, which causes you to love and respect the ‘all’ in your life. I know this sounds simplistic, too out-there, too impossible. What I do know, and you can know, is that the Christ life is about having the Christ light aglow in your life.

God’s love will change you, little by little, bit by bit. And that’s a good thing.

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