Abortion’s False Narrative

Abortion Kills Innocent Life

Texas is in the news, and it’s about Texas banning abortions at six weeks in utero. Depending what side you are on, this news makes you either happy or sad. Prolifers can never give up the fight. People like me don’t give up defending the human right to be born.

She’s pregnant.

(+) They’re celebrating. What a difference it makes if a pregnancy is desired and the baby is wanted. There are parties and celebrations, gender reveals, baby showers, baby announcements and newborn baby gifts. Everyone’s happy about the pregnancy and excited about the baby.

(-) They’re not celebrating. But what about the surprise, unexpected, unplanned pregnancy? What happens when the timing isn’t the best, when the two people aren’t a couple or they aren’t ready for the responsibility of a child, or a baby would interfere with their or her plans, or a baby isn’t wanted, or she’s just a teen herself?

What then?

The baby doesn’t have any say. The baby doesn’t get to choose whether they are wanted or unwanted. The womb is a scary place for the devalued, unwanted fetus. Their status as a prebirthed being makes it is easier to excuse when the birther person chooses to terminate the pregnancy. They abort the problem. Throw away the product of conception. Case closed.

For those who think that abortion is a women’s rights issue–rather than a human rights issue–the termination of a pregnancy is a slam dunk. They can lie to themselves and say that what they are going to do or what they did was right and best, they can save face and reputation. Everyone’s happy. Problem solved.

But not for the PreBorn baby.

They lost their life.

The greatest alarm came from the PreBorn. They didn’t have any say over their own life or about what happened to them. They had the most to lose. They fought in the womb but they didn’t have a chance. Then their life was discarded like yesterday’s lunch. Even the laws of the land didn’t protect them.

Such a travesty.

A few have survived an abortion attempt and lived to tell about it.

How did society come to accept that killing an unplanned, unwanted, unborn infant is preferred, right, and good policy? It came to be believed through deception, lies, and a perceived rightness that says the pregnancy is inconvenient, the wrong time, and so forth.

They have believed a false narrative that says we are in charge of our own destiny and can do whatever we want. Such thinking glibly says that we can sacrifice invisible, innocent lives whenever conveniently necessary for the good of society and for reproductive rights.

Let’s rethink the narrative.

The truth is that even PreBorn lives matter. All life matters. A PreBorn life is more than an ‘it,’ a fetus is a human being. Preborn children deserve to be protected. They deserve a right to be born and to live their life. A womb should be the safest place on earth, instead of the deadliest in some cases.

God places value on human life. God gave every human being a soul at the moment He gave them life. It is no small thing to disregard what God has made. We should help save the unprotected ‘innocents.,’ who can’t protect themselves. We should value all human life, instead of valuing some and not valuing others.

Some women have confided in me their hidden sorrows. They share their regret at terminating a pregnancy/s. They had believed the lie that they were better off without the child, that they probably couldn’t manage a baby at the time. Guilt, grief, sadness and regret came later, when they admitted or sensed that what they had done was wrong.

The conscience knows.

God awakens the conscience. A person cannot disregard or forget what the abortionist has done. Many will justify theirs and others’ abortions as they try to prove that their choice and others’ choices were right, given the circumstances. That’s the clincher, how abortion is justified.

For some, they want to live how they want to live without changing the way they live. They refuse to take ownership of their pasts. Society has made it too easy. So much so, that many women go on to have multiple abortions.

For others, there is regret. Their feelings of guilt, shame and unworthiness cause them to believe they are unworthy of God’s love and forgiveness. But they are mistaken. God loves them unconditionally. He forgives the repentant sinner. Christ meets them where they are at. He forgives their sins, and sets them free.

God calls the sinner to confess and repent of their sins. He calls them to Himself. Post abortive women and abortion clinicians can receive forgiveness through Christ’s sacrifice and by belief in the Lord Jesus Christ as their Savior. This is God’s great gift of redemption through which you receive eternal life.

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We all have a stake in what is happening in our culture today. That is why I am devoting three posts to this phenomenon. More in a couple of weeks.

May God send this article to the person who needs it.

God’s best,

Norma


Growing: Spiritual Transformation, Part 2 of 5

A spiritual awakening changes everything.

The best thing you could ever do for yourself is to have a spiritual transformation. A spiritual transformation is like a spiritual makeover. It changes everything about you, inside to out. However, a spiritual transformation is not just about growing in the Lord. It is much, much more.

“Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.”

–Matthew 7:7

What spiritual transforming entails.

  • Spiritual transformation is when God becomes your enough.
  • Spiritual transformation is when God comes first.
  • Spiritual transformation is when you quit doing spiritual life your way.

Why would you want to spiritually transform? It will give life to your spiritual walk. You will strengthen in your daily interactions. You will know the Source of life, God Eternal, in a very real way.  You will walk with God, and that is truly amazing awesomeness.

Spiritual life is a journey, not a destination.

I never set out to have a spiritual transformation. After it had changed my life, I knew what to call it. I set out to know God without holding anything back. I wanted nothing to block my pursuit of Him. That was it. God took it from there.

Did you ever have something happen to you that knocked you down and changed your life, your thinking, the way you process life, and altered the way you interact with others?

When life happens.

I had one of those life events when I lost my younger sister. She was 33, and I was 38, when she passed away. My kids and I had just been to visit her three weeks before at her home in Beaverton, Oregon. We went for a walk in the park and ate a meal at her home. My kids loved their Aunt Lou.

My sister committed suicide. When we lost Lois to suicide, it destroyed me more than all the other bad things that had happened to me. My sister and I were raised in the same home, with the same parents, with a strong Christian presence in our lives. She had followed the faith until the last two or three years of her life.

What was missing?

My sister’s suicide made me question why this had happened to her. Why hadn’t God been enough for her. Where had we failed her? Why had her Christian life and heritage failed her? I wondered what had been missing that had caused her to be empty and lost. Lois was successful at work, had loyal friends, and was talented, intelligent, and witty.

This started me on a hunt. I wanted to know what had been missing in my sister Lois’s life and why Christianity had not been enough in her life. I believed part of the answer involved our ‘brand’ of Christianity, a lack within fundamentalism to go beyond spiritual obedience and head knowledge to address human need and human suffering.

What I found.

The first answer to the complex question came in the form of an awareness. The more I pursued the path to knowing God, the more I became aware that our Christian life is about a living relationship with Father, Son, and Spirit. This relationship with the Godhead is life-changing, life-giving, and life-enabling. It’s not that the other was bad in and of itself, it was that it fell short of the most important aspect of following Christ, a spiritual relationship.

If you are like me, and you were not taught about living relationship with the Father, Son, and Spirit, then here’s your opportunity to spiritually awaken to this phenomenal truth. God wants to be known. He wants to interact with you. God desires living relationship with you. This living relationship with God will cause you to become spiritually real, personally authentic, and fully alive.

I want you to want it.

Next in series: Middle: Spiritual Transformation, Part 3 of 5

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