Sacred Space: Enter Silence with God (Part 3)

The 5 Easy Steps of Sacred Space

I never thought I would be writing this book. This week I got to thinking about my spiritual life and what has set it apart from the ordinary. Now, that’s saying a lot and could seem arrogant, but it’s not. I could probably whittle it down to two things, and they are 1) I asked God to change me, and He did (He did the heavy lifting) 2) I developed a spiritual discipline of actively listening while in contemplative, meditative, prayerful state. The second one is what I am dubbing, Sacred Space.

10563146_10202522355134252_3765578909730957646_nWhat is a Sacred Space?

This week I started writing about creating your own Sacred Space, a place set aside for ‘sacred’ contemplative time with God. This is for meditating in uninterrupted silence through an inward practice of seeking God, a rich time alone in unscripted connection with God, where one becomes aware of His eternal essence.

In my personal life, I began doing this practice many years ago when I was a teacher and four of my five children still lived at home (I was a single parent). I chose Saturday mornings for my long, alone time with God, often from when I got up in the morning until lunch time (with a break for making breakfast for the kids…pancakes on Saturday mornings).

I was seeking God with my whole heart, but not to know Him so much, but because I desperately needed Him. Over the course of time, God began to teach me and become real to me. It was incredibly sweet. I was sitting at His table and He was feeding me. My whole sense of spiritual living changed as a result of this Saturday morning time alone with God. I became refreshed and new, freed and healed. It was an ongoing process, and still is.

Sacred space is not achieved through devotional texts or scriptural study time. Rather, it is for the purpose of deep spiritual awakening facilitated through communing with Father-God and His God-head. It is the purest thing I know to complete and over-the-top happiness, which is personally and spiritually transforming on all levels. God is a relational God. That is why we need to get to the business of getting to know Him and then responding to His nudges and presence.

Hopefully I will publish a booklet about this some day with a title similar to this one: A Sacred Space Can be Yours: How to Engage Your Spiritual Walk and take it to the next level in 5 Easy Steps.

The 5 Easy Steps of Sacred Space

  1. A sacred place: Where to conduct your alone time with God, a place that is quiet and without distraction.
  2. A sacred time: When to schedule your alone time with God according to your needs and life-style.
  3. A sacred text: What to read, think or consider as you conduct your alone time with God.
  4. A sacred process: How to facilitate your alone time with God in a meaningful, refreshing way.
  5. A sacred modality. What to include as you prepare and participate in your alone time with God.

PREVIEW SNIPPET — A Sacred Space Can be Yours

A sacred space is not regimented or easily explained, yet it has a design. I could say it is defined by its open-ended lack of structure. That is not the whole story, the parameters must be adhered to or the participant will wander out in left field, where side eddies compete for attention. That is why one must have modalities that focus our attention, and we must act with great intention.

Prayerful, contemplative meditation thrives when this sacred practice is implemented in the Christian believer’s life. Why? It brings us near to the heart of God. He becomes real to us as in a living, breathing, intimate relationship. But this spiritual discipline must be set aside and valued, deemed sacred, in order for our silent sacred space to incorporate the necessary particulars that make the setting and practice both spiritually meaningful and life-enhancing.

This sacred space is called sacred because it deals with the holiness of God and our inter-connected relationship with His Holy Being. There is nothing secular in this practice because it is meant as a means to pursue and seek that which is spiritual in its full essence and related to God, Christ, and Christ’s Passion as it outworks in our lives.

In some ways this is a circular activity with no ending—it spirals upward or downward, depending—and will not complete the circle until our earthly life ends and our eternal life is fully actualized in the heavenly next-life.  The circular movement of our spiritual life is redemptive: there are ongoing aspects of death, resurrection, and new life that continually produce a godly effect in our lives. Hence, it is both loving and painful as the life  we live cycles ’round and ’round. The past reveals the lower rungs, with its blessedness, which document this ongoing spiritual transforming in our lives.

We become healthy in our invisible, core being as we embrace and live what God imparts to us throughout our days, unless we choose to live life our own way without Him. This is true for all people, including people in the church. We are either doing it our way or God’s way. Without time spent in the silence found in sacred space, we tend to remain stale, rigid, staid or stagnate in our spiritual lives without the liveliness of spontaneity and joy that marks a life connected to the Source and the love of God with the inward influence of His being.

It is also sacred because we are choosing to preserve a specific time for this pursuit and will determine to guard and honor it. Something that is “sacred” means it is not up for conversation or manipulation. It is of utmost importance to us because in our sacred space we will plumb the depths and receive the gifts our heavenly Father wishes to impart to us.

For effective alone time with God, in sacred space, there is a need for honesty and seeking, openness and confession, responding and changing. God teaches us once we decide we will actively listen. He comes along side and joins us. The minute we bolt and go back to doing it our own way (even with church things), God will let us go and gives us the reins. We lose our authenticity. At that point, we have impeded the flow. Why eat hot dogs when you can have steak? We’re settling. There is something beautiful about knowing the ways of God and knowing Him as a friend. He loves us so much.

Prayer, People, and Power: Intro

Do you have a big prayer concern? Most of us do. Big concerns require big prayers. There are some difficulties that must be taken seriously and then prayed about with great intensity. We must pray like we mean it and then some.

blog PRAYER 1My pastor shared a story of a father who had three grown sons who had been taught the ways of spiritual life but had walked away in another direction. His sons had chosen to live life without much thought of God and without any desire for the spiritual. This gravely troubled the father. He knew his sons were missing the most important element in life, their spiritual well-being and their relationship with God. This grieved the father and was of great concern. He decided there was only one thing to do and that was to go after it by committing himself to prayer on their behalf. It would not be a light treatment, either. I do not know if he fasted or not, but that is quite possible. The two go hand-in-hand.

The father made a choice to go to God in fervent prayer. He went off to a quiet location away from his home and responsibilities. For days he devoted himself to prayer, not just any kind of prayer, but deep prayer in regards to his three sons. He kept at it for days. He would not be deterred from his prayers and was determined to stay with it until there were visible results. After some time, things began to happen. One by one his sons contacted him to tell him about their spiritual awakening, each had encountered God in a new way and God had become real to them. All three sons were changed. It took the father giving up his time and agenda to focus his energy and purpose on the need for God in his sons’ lives. The father, also, became a changed man by having gone through this powerful experience. You see, you can’t pray focused prayer and not have it also change you. We have to empty ourselves of all our stuff and in the process we become cleansed and fit vessels for God’s enabling.

Not all prayers will have dramatic endings or the ending we expect. But this I do know to be true, all answers to our prayers will have God’s touch and response and will be according to God’s plan.

I am convinced we don’t pray as we ought most of the time. Some of our prayers may be self-focused or even selfishly focused. Have you learned to give your greatest concerns to God? Have you learned to say open-ended prayers like ‘show me what you would have me to do’ when talking with Father-God? Part of the deal is that we must surrender our will and way to seek God’s will and way. That is a very hard thing to do until we know God as our spiritual lover who cares deeply for us and has our best interest at heart. Once we feel, know, and understand this, then we are able to pray with fervency of heart, and we find ourselves wanting to serve Him in a very natural way. Our love for God gives us service-oriented hearts. Intimate prayers flow from a soul that is connected with the divine energy that flows from the God-head.

A few years back I wrote a speech about mothers for Mother’s Day. I had a greater purpose, however. My real purpose was to show, challenge, and encourage people to learn to pray with fervency, with meaningful prayer that makes a difference. For the follower of Christ, the depth of the experience is in relation to the expediency of the prayer. This type of prayer is effective and faith-bound, gracious and trust-filled. Prayer like this is prayer that people who effect change will engage in. It is attached at its very core to a living, dynamic, centered life in Christ.

I chose to pivot my talk on strong women of the faith. The common thread was where these women’s strength lay. They were strong because their prayers were fervent and passionate. We, as a people, like that which is real and genuine, not fake or disingenuous. What I shared with my audience was real, not fake, and it was based on historical facts. The women I talked about were Jesus’ mother, Samuel’s mother, Augustine of Hippo’s mother, Hudson Taylor’s mother, Mother Teresa, my grandmothers, my mother and a few others. All of these women prayed fervently and were devoted in their beliefs. They prayed for their children and were strong women of God. Their prayers were not middling prayers; they were powerful, fervent, relentless, and effective.

God recognizes sincerity when He sees it.

The stories supported the claim that strong prayers, prayed by sincere people, receive powerful answers from God. I shared about my own mother, who, during my growing up years, in the morning sat on the couch to read her Bible and would pray while we practiced the piano before catching the bus for school. I told how Augustine’s mother, Monica, went to mass every day, helped the poor, was devoted to God, and how she continually prayed and begged God for her son’s salvation; his conversion was astounding and remarkable, and is still impacting lives today. I told how Hudson Taylor’s mother went away for several days all the while praying for her teenage son to turn his life to God and how she didn’t return until she was convinced he had given his life to Christ, which he did during her time away. I talked about Mary and her response to the message from the angel, her virtue and awe exhibited by the words in her Magnificant, and how her heart broke to see her son on the cross. I spoke of Hannah, whose passionate prayer caused Eli, the priest, to deduce that she was drunk, but her prayer, and God’s response, contributed to history one of the spiritual greats, a man of God.

God answered these women’s prayers. None of their prayers were mediocre prayers. These were heart-wrenching requests of God, filled with petition and praise, and with humble acknowledgement of the God who hears and acts according to His good pleasure. Promises to God were made in their prayers, and kept. Some required sacrifice and unselfish giving on the part of these women. I think of Hannah, who promised her son to God. They knew the full surrender their prayers required and the devotion of their hearts to God and His perfect will. God, indeed, answers all prayer. The effectual prayer of a righteous person avails much.

I will begin the series, Prayer, People, and Power, next week. I hope you will join me.

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