Befriending Silence takes us in the back door and then into the life of Cistercian spirituality. As a lay Cistercian, the author writes this book in conversational language without losing the beauty of the practice of silence. He shows us, through a carefully written overview, the reasons why a person would (not should) seek to become a monk, in particular, a Cistercian monk. This is a kind treatment, one with affection and grace, that seeks to enlighten the reader to the joy of quietness in the presence of God, where words are not required and openness with God is rich and meaningful.
I am not of the liturgical community, but I have found the richness of what McColman speaks. There is much to be gained when one follows a spirituality of contemplation, where we listen and tune our focus and personhood to this ancient practice. I appreciate the fair treatment and information given. A few questions of mine were answered through the reading of this book. I love the title!
Befriending Silence: Discovering the Gifts of Cistercian Spirituality (Ava Maria Press, 2015)
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