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		<title>Becoming a Good Neighbor (14)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2015 16:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[<p>A few weeks past I mentioned wanting to become more neighborly, to be a neighbor in my thinking and life style. It is interesting how God has taken my statement and prayer and is making it into a new reality for me. All I have provided is a willingness and a desire to change in [&#8230;]</p>
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					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #000000;">A few weeks past I mentioned wanting to become more neighborly, to be a neighbor in my thinking and life style. It is interesting how God has taken my statement and prayer and is making it into a new reality for me. All I have provided is a willingness and a desire to change in this area of my Christian living. Nothing else. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">It is happening. I have listened, babysat, provided meals, opened my home for visits, and have allowed my daily agenda to be altered at will. I am learning to “let it flow.” Sometimes I begin to resist because I have my plans and wish to stay home, and then I remember my prayer and my wish to change. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">In this endeavor, I am finding myself saying “yes” instead of “no” to things that take up my time, time I would actually prefer to keep to myself. I am reminded, a person should never pray for something they are unwilling to do. God takes us at our word. We should too! If we ask for something, we should expect Him to act on it. </span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">I am finding that being a good neighbor is helping me to come out of my self-imposed “hermitage” and moving me forward. I must say, it is becoming a great blessing to me. A new day is here!</span></p>
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<p>Excerpt from October, 2014 in my upcoming new book &#8220;<em>A Golden Silence: Moments with God at Vina Monastery</em>.&#8221;</p>
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