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				<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you notice a problem? Have you ever felt irritated? Of course. Yes, we all get irritated, out of sorts, or even angry. I&#8217;m not one who gets angry very often, but I do get frustrated or in a bad mood. Although, today I am less perturbed than I used to be. I like to [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>Do you notice a problem? Have you ever felt irritated? <em>Of course.</em> Yes, we all get irritated, out of sorts, or even angry. I&#8217;m not one who gets angry very often, but I do get frustrated or in a bad mood. Although, today I am less perturbed than I used to be. I like to think that I have grown over the past few years. But if I am not careful, I slide back into that hole. Every day I have to keep after it, and I mean that.</p>


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<p>We are either going forward or backward. We never stay the same. It helps to take stock of what we say and do. If you start the day off with a prayer&#8230;you are on your way to having a better than good day. You are bringing God close. You are thinking on Him. About Him. For Him. If your prayer keeps God close as in a conversational tone, you can really tell He is close, interested, and available. You can even ask Him to show you that He is with you.</p>



<p>It&#8217;s not that we aren&#8217;t supposed to have problems, that&#8217;s just not the case. But He is close, willing and able to help us with the problems. He is there waiting for us to call upon Him. We sometimes have to call upon Him many times, and that&#8217;s okay. Other times, He is ready to jump in. God waits for us to call upon Him. The relationship keeps going deeper and deeper. It is really quite beautiful when you think about it. He wants us to become compatible with Himself. </p>



<p>My journey with God is becoming a stronger faith walk. As I grow, I trust more; as I trust more I am showing God that I am stronger than I used to be&#8230;and that&#8217;s good. In fact, that&#8217;s great!</p>



<p>There are times when we get stuck in a rut. We can&#8217;t seem to get out of the rut though we try. During those times we must be patient. God is teaching us to wait, rest, and trust: <strong>Wait </strong>till He is willing to move us: <strong>Rest </strong>until the time is right (you&#8217;re active while you wait and rest): <strong>Trust</strong> Him through the ups and downs. You will find that the Lord has taught you during your time of waiting, resting, and trusting. It will amaze you what you have learned during this time.</p>



<p>Almost two years ago I found myself struggling to get my life going in a basic way forward. I knew how but I couldn&#8217;t seem to move forward with any traction. It seemed as if I was stuck in one place for a few months. I got discouraged. I didn&#8217;t complain to others but I assumed they could tell. I was ready to quit my blog for I didn&#8217;t have much to say. The truth is, God has me delving into a different direction. He wants me to learn a few new things. He has some things He want to show me. It is amazing the direction He is leading me. It is all new. I&#8217;m learning new things and that is good, very good. Later on I will share what he is teaching me, but not now.</p>



<p>Maybe you are learning a few things. I&#8217;d love to hear your thoughts. God has kept me quiet for two and a half years for a reason. He wants me to listen. He wants me to think about the things He is showing me. He wants me to get rid of some things, too. God wants to teach us. He is always making us new, brand new.</p>



<p>Praise Him for this.</p>



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