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		<title>To My Son: A Letter about Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Nov 2017 08:05:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma L. Brumbaugh</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[<p>A Mother&#8217;s Heart My son was visiting me a few years back when we began talking about life, God, and how the two intersect. We were open with each other as we delved in and considered the &#8220;whys&#8221; of personal belief. We discussed the meaning of life and how it ties to one&#8217;s perspective of [&#8230;]</p>
The post <a href="https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/letter-to-a-son/">To My Son: A Letter about Life</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com">Norma L. Brumbaugh</a>.]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>A Mother&#8217;s Heart</h2>
<p>My son was visiting me a few years back when we began talking about life, God, and how the two intersect. We were open with each other as we delved in and considered the &#8220;whys&#8221; of personal belief. We discussed the meaning of life and how it ties to one&#8217;s perspective of God, the spiritual&#8211;or lack thereof&#8211;and the philosophical.</p>
<p>As a followup, I decided to write Son 2 an email letter about my hopes and desires for his life, especially on the spiritual side, and the meaning I derive from this. I wished to challenge him in new ways and to give him something more to contemplate.</p>
<p>I hoped my son would grasp the delightful knowledge that belief, Christianity, and God in one&#8217;s life, can be vital, rich, and much, much more than most Christian people know it to be. God is life-giving when he is accessed in open and tender, real relationship.</p>
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<p>I share my letter to my son here on my blog for the same reason: to encourage you in your faith walk.</p>
<h3>Letter to a Son</h3>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">My Son,</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">What would I have my son to be? I would have God to be real to you.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I would have you get away from all that seems meaningful for a moment in order to have an honest and open conversation with God.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I would have you reevaluate the important, the very most important, values in your life. These tie in to your beliefs, why you do what you do.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I would have you to not run, if this is any part of the equation. People often do this when life gets complicated.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I would have you thank God for every grace he has given you and praise him for his mighty work on your behalf.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I would have you humble yourself in the sight of the Lord, to give up the right to your life. This comes first.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I would have you to be everything you are, my beloved child, and everything God wants you to be, as his beloved child.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I would have you to live in freedom. Life, real God-life, has an energy force all of its own. Few Christians seem to tap into it. They live unfulfilled lives of so-so Christian living, far short of the life God offers them.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I wish for you, that you will and can partake of the great flowing grace of God. He must be the focus or it will be a wasted effort.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Most of all, I wish for you to fall in love with the Savior. He loves you so very much.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I love you,</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Mom</p>
<p>My son was appreciative. This sparked additional two-way conversations.</p>
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