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		<title>How to Prioritize Your Time Unselfishly</title>
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				<description><![CDATA[<p>I'm doing better at listening to the Spirit. Of course, I can say yes or no to the Spirit. It is always better to say yes to the Spirit.</p>
The post <a href="https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/how-to-unselfishly-prioritize-my-time/">How to Prioritize Your Time Unselfishly</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com">Norma L. Brumbaugh</a>.]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="760" height="507" src="https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/nina-strehl-Ds0ZIA5gzc4-unsplash-760x507.jpg" class="featured-image wp-post-image" alt="" srcset="https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/nina-strehl-Ds0ZIA5gzc4-unsplash-760x507.jpg 760w, https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/nina-strehl-Ds0ZIA5gzc4-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/nina-strehl-Ds0ZIA5gzc4-unsplash-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/nina-strehl-Ds0ZIA5gzc4-unsplash-768x512.jpg 768w, https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/nina-strehl-Ds0ZIA5gzc4-unsplash-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/nina-strehl-Ds0ZIA5gzc4-unsplash-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/nina-strehl-Ds0ZIA5gzc4-unsplash-518x345.jpg 518w, https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/nina-strehl-Ds0ZIA5gzc4-unsplash-250x166.jpg 250w, https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/nina-strehl-Ds0ZIA5gzc4-unsplash-82x55.jpg 82w, https://www.nlbrumbaugh.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/nina-strehl-Ds0ZIA5gzc4-unsplash-600x400.jpg 600w" sizes="(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /><p>I don&#8217;t always prioritize well. What gets me in trouble is my to-do list. My to-do&#8217;s can overshadow the people thing. I can get so caught up in what I&#8217;m doing that I don&#8217;t allow for people disruptions.</p>
<p><em>I have that backwards, sometimes.</em></p>
<p>But I&#8217;m doing better at listening to the Spirit. Of course, I can say yes or no to the Spirit. It is always better to say yes. I have to discipline myself to put aside what I am doing to respond to a legitimate need, or phone call, or to meet over coffee at Starbucks.</p><span id="more-13484"></span>




<p><em>I have to hold my time loosely.</em></p>



<p>I can&#8217;t covet my time. I can&#8217;t hoard my time. I can&#8217;t protect my time. It&#8217;s not my time, anyways. It&#8217;s God&#8217;s time. He can help himself to my time to use as His time, by guiding my thoughts and behavior. I learn to listen to His voice and to respond when He nudges.</p>



<p><em>I have to be willing to act in the moment.</em></p>



<p>My life is to be lived as a blessing to others. It would be wrong of me to withhold by pulling back in a relationship or a friendship. I can get out of sorts from slight hurts or unkind actions, but such things are not worth losing a friend over. Friendships can drift apart, but that&#8217;s not what I am talking about in this instance. One must hold up their end of the bargain.</p>



<p><em>I don&#8217;t always do the friend-thing well.</em></p>



<p>Yet, I&#8217;m trying, and learning, and growing, and hoping, and becoming. Oswald Chambers says we should be &#8216;broken bread and poured out wine&#8217; to others. Which means, we should live unselfishly and give generously of ourselves to others. </p>



<p><em>I am thankful every time I respond to an opportunity.</em></p>



<p>We aren&#8217;t always given second chances to do the thing. We won&#8217;t regret what we did do, when and if we don&#8217;t put off an opportunity when it presents itself. Some things can&#8217;t be helped, when something takes precedence over the thing we&#8217;ve planned. I missed two vacation opportunities because of someone else&#8217;s needs at the time. One can&#8217;t regret such things. They are also a part of living life in the flow of things.</p>



<p><em>Let God be the leader, and you will have no regrets.</em></p>
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